“You don’t have to have sex to feel good about yourself, and if you’re not ready, don’t do it.” No it isn’t Bizzaro world and yes that is a quote from Lady Gaga.

Apparently for the last year Lady Gaga has been single. She doesn’t want one night stands and is telling her fans at least for now that a person is still a whole and even a cool person if they choose not to have casual sex. She wants for herself sex in the context of a real relationship. That is awesome.

Glad she has taken that view. Here’s hoping that her music will catch up with her new publicly professed ethic. Looks like she has gotten down a very good principle at least for now in her private life.

King Solomon was a musician too and his Song of Songs has been read for three millennium. One line in his song speaks her point very well. Do not “stir up or awaken love until it pleases.” It pleases best in relationship, and the best sexual relationships are designed to be in marriage.